I'm a Pain to Live With!

I must admit, I'm difficult to live with. That's hard to say for someone like me, I am the kind of person who is rarely wrong. So if I am rarely wrong, it must be great to live me, right? Hell no! I'm a pain in the butt! First I know I can't be right as often as I think, statistically I know I right! Second, I have to have things situated in just a particlar way. Not everything, just some things. For example I have recently taken up cooking. So, I have re-arranged the kitchen so it is efficient. And everything has a place. And if I can't find things, I'm sure I have a skowl on my face becuase it didn't get put away in the right place. I don't me to skowl, I can't help it.

I know that I don't pick fights or bitch (too often) but when I do say something, that makes my words very sharp. So when I decided to stop holding things in, well let's just say, my household though the world was coming to an end! Seeing me with emotions is not good. And I always understood that, like all women, I could give a "look". Sometimes intentional, sometimes not. Well I underestimated their power. Those looks can be like a loaded weapon!

Ladies, here's a little adivise. Don't change too much, too quickly, on your spouse. It scares them, it really does. Don't over use the "look" or your spouse, children, co-workers, etc, will become immune to it's potential effects. Speak softly as long as you can, or not at all if really angry. Scream when they least expect it. They call it "shock value" for a reason. (Don't over use it!)

Most important: Love your families, friends and pets. They may not be here if you blink. Have fun! That's why we are here. Have faith in yourself to do whatever itis you want to do, if you fail, it's ok, it's just a lesson on how not to do something. Keep tryng. But keep having fun!